I should be blogging about tasting our new saison, or the new beers I’m trying in upstate New York where we’re spending July. Â But those posts aren’t getting written, so they’ll have to wait.
On a more timely note is The Session — loosely-organized beer blogging on a monthly topic.  I’ve only just heard about it, and I find this month’s topic fascinating: drinking alone:
The way I see it is that I love beer and pubs and I don’t see why I should only go to the pub when I’m with other people.
Am I weird for going to the pub alone?
How do you feel about going to the pub alone? Do you feel it’s necessary to be around friends to spend time in a pub?
As it turns out, it’s rare for me to go to pubs or bars at all, and even rarer that I’d go alone. Â Partly this is due to my own laziness, and I’m sure it’s partly due to the general social pressure against hanging out alone in public, especially where eating and drinking are concerned. Â Though the social pressure against drinking alone is most acute in public, it’s definitely there in private too. Â If I’m home alone for the evening, I might have a beer or two, but it’s definitely the exception not the rule.
But there have been a few times, mostly when I really wanted to try some beer you could only get at the pub. Â The most recent example I can remember is when I took a trip to Cologne. Â It’s a city famous for its local style of beer, and for the most part it’s not bottled or exported at all. Â So you pretty much have to go to the pub to get it. Â And since my young children are generally in bed by 8pm, that left a few hours each evening where I could venture out by myself and grab a few glasses of Kolsch, as Wind graciously volunteered to hang out at the hotel with the kids.
I was glad to have the chance to try a few more Kolsches, but it wasn’t much fun. Â I’m quite introverted, and really not up to chatting with strangers in the pub. Â So I mostly fiddled about on my phone, reading the news or playing games. Â Not a terrible way to pass some time, but much less comfortable than hanging around a hotel room.
It really brought home for me the fact that drinking is a social activity, like eating really. Â You can enjoy it uncritically or poring over every detail and hint of nuance. Â You can enjoy it with two people or twenty. Â You can enjoy the most exotic, expensive and rare, or the plain, wholesome and everyday. Â But removing the social aspect really changes the experience, reducing it to just fulfilling a need.
I was thinking about all this when I went to a sour fest in Tampa last month.  The situation is very different from your typical pub, since there were some couples and groups, but many more people by themselves.  And the focus was more clearly on enjoying and analyzing the beer, and even I found myself chatting and joking with the servers and other attendees.